What I am about to share with you is a secret that should only remain and be discussed among men. Do not let your girlfriend, your sister, your mother, your daughter, your grandmother or any feminine-like creature know about it. It will be a big blow, a disgrace and complete betrayal to Manhood for such creatures to know our secret which has become our golden principle from the days of Adam till now.
It can be very frustrating and heart-quaking if the girl you like and want to be with for the rest of your earthly life and perhaps beyond, doesn’t like you back – what is normally referred to as unrequited love. Sometimes you do all that is within your might to get her to like you but she still doesn’t seem to notice you. If you are in this boat, guess what, a lot of people are too. I used to be in that position until I found the light. And I am going to get you to see that light today.
The first thing to do when you’re trying to get a girl who doesn’t like you to like you back is to ignore and forget about her. Yes! that is right. It isn’t a typo. Why would you keep pining for a girl who gives no attention to your existence in the world, with the hope that you will someday get her to assist you to mess up the marital sheets.
If you keep chasing her like a dog, you’re telling yourself that there is no other person in the universe you’d rather spend time with but her. It means you are incomplete without her. This is very bad for your self-image and mental health as a gentleman. It is a sign of neediness and low self-worth. You are not a half human being. Have some self-respect man! The first person to fall in love with is yourself.
Even the Holy bible says it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’(Mark 12:31).
If you don’t like yourself, it is difficult to get someone to like you. Behave as if you don’t need them. I’m not asking you to pretend but try to have a life of your own. Girls like guys who are confident of themselves and also have passion for something they love such as reading, sports or programming. You can’t be always snooping around and calling or texting her everyday like you get nothing going on, if you really want someone on your level to like you.
Whether you like it or not, there are some people who will never like you back no matter how much you try to worship them. So if you’re crucifying yourself for her and she still treats you like a piece of junk, just walk away. If she doesn’t like you, that’s her problem not yours.You’re probably too awesome for her. Besides there are tons of other beautiful girls you might like who are ready to hook up with you. Don’t be shallow-minded and get fixated on just one snobbish girl when your gorgeous Angelina Jollie is waiting for you next door.
Even if you she is the only one badass you would like to have and to hold for the rest of your life you still have to ignore her. Yes! When a lady sees that you’re unavailable and have your own thing going on she seems to feel attracted to you naturally. And that will work to your advantage, right?. But if you’re always hanging around and keep acting like an incomplete piece of man, girls will never label you as a cool guy. Never!
I once had a friend who is a girl and I started developing feelings for her but I didn’t know how to approach her because we had been friends for long time and didn’t ever envisage us dating. So I stopped communicating with her for some time and one day she called and started telling me how much she missed me and all that cute girlie talk… you know. And that was how things started moving from casual to the next level.
So instead of crying in your closets and being pathetic because of just a girl, commit to being a better version of yourself; more confident, physically healthy, intelligent and financially stable smart-ass. And before you know it, girls will be attracted to you like Brad Pitt, and you won’t even have a room large enough to keep them.
You are not the only one who cares so much about this year. Chances are that you don’t even care at all. Well, there are some others who do. Crossing over into 2016 is something a lot of people wanted to be part of. The question is; Why? For the political folks, they were anxious because it is an election year. For the scientists and those who care so much about the earth, they wanted to see if the predictions about the Global Warming is true. And you?
But for myself and all the other single, hardworking and lazy students who are graduating from college this year-2016, it is hard to contain the excitement and the disappointments the year brings. Because it is our final year and final semester in college.
There is something about the final lap that drives people crazy. Some students have bad CWA, others haven’t grabbed yet and are still single. Others still don’t have real friends, and those who do have real friends haven’t had such a good time. On a more serious note, there are some who still haven’t given their lives to Christ. That’s deadly.
Whatever it is that you have to accomplish, just keep in mind that there won’t be next semester. Read the rest of this entry »